Kristen Stewart Candid Quotes About Her Sexuality and Coming Out as Queer Through the Years
Kristen Stewart, the enigmatic actress known for her roles in “Twilight,” “Panic Room,” and “Charlie’s Angels,” has been refreshingly candid about her sexuality and journey of self-discovery. From her early years in the spotlight to her recent engagement, Stewart has navigated the complexities of fame, love, and identity with grace and authenticity.
Kristen Stewart is the cover girl for InStyle’s November issue. The actress gave the magazine an open and rare interview about her journey as coming out queer. She also spoke about how she became more comfortable discussing her romantic relationships in public.
Kristen Stewart addressed her past reluctance being photographed with her partners in her late teens and early twenties, explaining why she has come to be more comfortable with the public attention on her love life. She said
“I’m a little nervous to be hosting because I know the president’s probably watching, and, um, I don’t think he likes me that much,” Stewart quipped in her February 2017 monologue, referring to former president Donald Trump disapproving of her cheating on Robert Pattinson. “The president is not a huge fan of me, which is so OK, because Donald, if you didn’t like me then, you’re really probably not going to like me now. I’m, like, so gay, dude.”
The SNL Revelation
Stewart dropped a bombshell in February 2017 during her “Saturday Night Live” hosting debut. Addressing former President Donald Trump’s disapproval of her past relationship with Robert Pattinson, she quipped, “I’m, like, so gay, dude.” It was a moment of unfiltered honesty that resonated with many. Stewart had never publicly disclosed her sexuality before, and this revelation marked a turning point in her life.
Stewart, who had previously dated Speak costar Michael Angarano and Twilight love interest Pattinson during her early years in the spotlight, had never publicly disclosed her sexuality.
“Honestly, I think it was just funny,” she told E! News one month later. “Not to diminish the point, because I think that saying things so bluntly is absolutely important, but at the same time, the only reason I haven’t ever done that is because there is an ambiguity to that and I wanted things to be really real for me.”
She continued, “I’m so utterly proud that I’ve had so many people be like, ‘Thank you,’ and I’m like, ‘No, thank you.’ It’s kind of mutual, full circle.”
Since coming out, Stewart dated the likes of Alicia Cargile, St. Vincent, Soko, Stella Maxwell and Dylan Meyer. Stewart and Meyer got engaged in 2021.
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Keep scrolling for more of Stewart’s candid thoughts about sexuality and coming out as a member of the LGBTQIA+ community:
Kristen Stewart Candid Quotes
Not Hiding Anymore
Stewart’s journey toward self-acceptance began earlier. In August 2015, she playfully responded to questions about her relationship with Alicia Cargile, saying, “Google me, I’m not hiding.” She believed that in the future, labels like gay or straight would matter less, and people could be themselves without scrutiny.
Defying Labels
As a child actor, Stewart felt the pressure to define herself publicly. However, she rebelled against labels. In May 2016, she told Variety, “I’m not going to [define my sexuality]. If you don’t get it, I don’t have time for you.” Her refusal to conform to societal expectations became a powerful statement.
Embracing Authenticity
Stewart’s coming-out moment on SNL wasn’t just about shock value. It was about embracing authenticity. She reflected on the experience, saying, “I’m so utterly proud that I’ve had so many people be like, ‘Thank you,’ and I’m like, ‘No, thank you.’ It’s kind of mutual, full circle.” Her openness paved the way for others to feel seen and accepted.
“I’m not confused,” she said. “Things have changed. And not just with me — we’re really allowed to encourage this new acceptance and be awesome.”
“Yeah, ambiguity is my favorite thing ever. In terms of sexuality? For sure,” she said during an interview for Paris’ Mastermind Magazine. “And also in making films, if you perfectly answer every question, you don’t allow for people to have their own experience and really indulge in thought. I feel that same way about how we f—k each other. You don’t want to know everything all the time.”
Love and Engagement
“I wasn’t hiding anything,” Stewart noted. “I didn’t talk about my first relationships that went public because I wanted things that are mine to be mine. I hated it that details of my life were being turned into a commodity and peddled around the world. But considering I had so many eyes on me, I suddenly realized [my private life] affects a greater number of people than just me. It was an opportunity to surrender a bit of what was mine, to make even one other person feel good about themselves.”
In 2021, she engaged Meyer, solidifying their love and commitment. Stewart’s journey reminds us that love transcends gender and authenticity is beautiful.
Kristen Stewart’s candidness is a beacon of hope in a world where labels can confine us. She encourages us to embrace our true selves, regardless of societal norms. As she once said, “I’m not confused. Things have changed. And not just with me — we’re really allowed to encourage this new acceptance and be awesome.”
Since coming out, Stewart sees Twilight in a new light despite it focusing on a heterosexual, teen love triangle between a human girl, a vampire boy and a werewolf guy.
“I don’t think it necessarily started off that way, but I also think that the fact that I was there at all, it was percolating,” Stewart told Variety. “It’s such a gay movie. I mean, Jesus Christ, Taylor [Lautner] and Rob and me, and it’s so hidden and not OK. I mean, a Mormon woman [Stephenie Meyer] wrote this book. It’s all about oppression, about wanting what’s going to destroy you. That’s a very Gothic, gay inclination that I love.”
So here’s to Kristen Stewart, a queer icon who continues to break barriers and redefine love.
